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Originally Posted by alteredcourse
Dead_Air, none of my business, but why do you allow the extra relationship? Are you trying to be progressive and laid back and tolerant? Was there some kind of ultimatum where if you dont put up with her desires then the entire world changes?
It doesnt sound like youre too happy with the situation. Sorry for that.
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I pretty well answered that in the rest of the thread. Our relationship is probably really over, it seems that way right now. I'm not allowing anything, just figuring out the easiest way out of a huge financial mess and breaking it to all of the family, and protecting our son.
Meanwhile we do sleep together and find ourselves kissing and saying I love you. I don't think sex is too likely, but I also am experiencing that whatever I think is going on will likely seem totally different tomorrow. I'm more interested in spending the energy going after other people than her though, and that's a major change in me as of about nine days ago (and it was kind of overnight then).