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Originally Posted by amerikangod
I'm refraining all judgment and expect no further explanation from you because 1) we are two strangers on the internet and 2) it's none of my fucking business and I don't know all of the details, but I will say this:
If she's living with you until she can afford to live on her own (meaning she is still being supported by you to some degree), she can't have her cake and eat it too. She should at least have the decency to wait until she's truly separate before she starts seeing other men. Taking what she wants and needs from a new partner and her old partner at the same time is simply selfish.
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You're blowing your asshole cover and starting to sound like a very reasonable person. Just sayin'
Yeah, I know all that. The seeing other people thing was something I told her to do when she said she wanted to leave so she could see other people though. I also retained the right to do same, but I haven't had the time or energy (or handy job as a stripper) to rush into it. I'm flirting online with a few art and noise chicks, and a couple are in my area, and one is into as she put it "making noise together" and playing a show with my band in a month. So I'm not acting like a victim per se.
Selfish? She's written a fucking multi-tome series of books. It's weird because she used to be so great and I kind of feel sorry for her for all she's done to herself and how hard she is inevitably going to crash. But not sorry enough to be there to pick up the pieces anymore. Beyond however much I have to to protect my son though.