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I don't think it's possible for a man and a woman to completely break up, ever (if they've been together for a long time or if they truely know each other beyond just on a shallow level). It's like expecting the black death to not kill people... those two people will always be apart of each other.
re: "Don't offer love you are not getting back."
This has been, personally, my biggest.. erm.. FAULT.. in life. I've always strived to help people, open people's minds, open people's eyes, open people's hearts. I've tried to be completely selfless, because I want the people I love, to be happy. Even at the expense of my own happiness. I guess I enjoy the abuse to some extent, I like knowing that they care enough to abuse me. Does that make sense? Well, you can't hate someone without loving them at some point -- you can't truely HATE, truely feel that strongly for someone, without loving them at some point, because the opposite of love isn't hate -- it's indifference, because love and hate are two emotions that go hand in hand. Makes me wonder if all of us are truely meant to be happy, as there is no easy way to do anything in life, nothing is black and white. There's no way to just go to work, come home, fuck someone you love, go to bed, and feel fulfilled. There has to be some new tragedy, some new form of bullshit, every day. Even when you feel like you're totally, 100% in love.. there's some form of baggage involved.
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