Originally Posted by MellySingsDoom

"Cunts". You may thank me now, later, or never. Spiffing question anyway, what what?

Back on topic - the gay "identity" thing is a sure interesting one...I recall that when I first came out, it seemed important for me to let everyone know of my, uh, gayness, which said a lot about my-then utter insecurity about the whole thing. Sure, being homosexual/"bisexual"/whatever is an important part of my life, but that's it, simply a part. These days, I find the whole "gayer than thou" thing that afflicts not a few peeps in the 'scene here in London tiresome as fuck. I'm tired of cock-talk and bitchy one-upmanship (hello Comptons...). Ultimately, I'd rather be known as an OK/decent human being who happens to be gay etc, rather than a gay who happens to be OK.