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Who hasn't had something similar to that?
You really aren't necessarily being paranoid if your girlfriend seems excessively close to another guy. I've never had to put up with that in the age of text messaging, it must really suck with that thrown in.
If you are seeing a therapist, that's likely a very good thing. You are probably in for some rougher emotional times before it gets better, and it may well get better in ways you wouldn't pick right now if you could (and you really never can).
Try to remember that your life has much more to it and much more of worth than a single relationship. I know I've lost sight of that in a big way in the past (and ended up needing professional help as well), but it is something that can be overcome.
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