when i finally got over my divorce... after i saw sideways and said to myself i didn't want to turn into paul giamatti's character, the first woman i dated, we were both just coming off of long term relationships and hadn't had sex in a while, but instead of having like hasty rebound sex on the couch ...( we did that too, later) we just laid in bed spooning and ran our fingers through each other's hair, discovered a few tattoos/piercings we hadn't known about on each other, etc.
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