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Originally Posted by sarramkrop

Just curious: Has anyone ever found the sort of person that they had been looking for?

yes but it doesn't work that way. it's not like you go around with a laundry list & checking items off it. well some people may do that, i think they are fucked up in the head. it's more of a feeling that someone is righ, an intuition. that's why i didn't post in this thread originally, it seemed naive & silly. you can't possibly find someone who has every fucking trait you want-- besides, that's a form of narcissism.

now, having said that-- having found a "the right person" doesn't mean it's all done & your problems are over. there is A LOT of shit to be worked out. a couple's life without conflict is like a marriage between zombies. you always gotta be working at it or the thing dies-- people change, grow, evolve, and both partners need to adapt, adjust, or bust up. oh yeah i've been to hell & back.

now, if we're talking about "ideals", which don't exist in real life, only in dreams, here's my "ideal"

 

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