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Originally Posted by krastian
He he.....just get out there and be yourself man....it'll work out. As lame as it seems, have you tried talking to some chicks online? There are surely tons of ones out there that are into the same stuff that you are into/ those who are just as awkward about dating etc. as you are.
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Yeah, she, that is why I thought this girl would be a good bet. I met her at a show, I didn't know her, and she said she liked my music, which meant a lot to me because I knew she wasn't saying so just to be nice. Plus she really likes Joy Division, Misfits, The Pixies, T. Rex, and a bunch of other stuff I like and we have the same favorite book. Plus she has a good time hanging out with my friends. Every girl I've gone out with hasn't really gotten along with my friends. Or taken interest in my music aspirations for that matter.
Girls online seem to be really superficial and shallow. We could have nothing in common, but they'll add me as their because they think I'm cute or something.
I don't meet as many girls as I used to, and that doesn't bother me. What bothers me is my complete inability to really woo the ones I like.
I only get bothered about girls when one is on my mind, otherwise I just don't really think about it. If I don't have a big crush on anyone in particular I don't really worry about it.