A thread where you can write why are you sad
 

Why are you sad? Why were you sad? What made you sad? Why are you not pissed about it? Chris pls dont delete this thread. Anyways... for example i was sad because the girl that i really liked turned out to be lesbian

lol relax he’s not gonna delete your thread

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and you can still like her, just as friends, which is in many ways is better than the overdramatic complications and inevitable disasters of teenage romance

Rivers Cuomo, is that you? :D

ngl, that's happened to me before. It sucks, but at least you know that it's not that you suck - you're just not compatible.

Regardless: most of my sadness is based around gender identity, gender dysphoria, gender hatred. Trying to find where I fit.

It was just a joke :D :D

lololol yeah it sounded dumb hahaha

anyway what about your unattainable princess? made up too? or furrealz?

furrealz

i think we can stay friends cuz like she also drinks alcohol (she's 16 btw) and i don't really people that don't have 18 years and drink

lolz

It rains and rains
I had home office today, so I was at home the whole day, with the exception of running down to the store
I know almost nobody in this town, and then after I find some friends and they invite me out for pints, I'm too lazy to get dressed and go. Like right now exactly.
Too old for this shit.

I am sad still cuz my mom died Sept. 30 2019.

I am sad still cuz my dad died Feb. 11, 1991.

*gasps* oh no. my dear condolences :(

dammit, i am getting sad by contagion.

slavo, i thought your family was with you. fuck! that sounds very lonely.

rob, i haven’t known that pain yet. damn. i have no words.

Sorry for your loss, Rob. As with !@#$%!, words fail me. My grandfather died in October, but we didn't have much of a relationship (emotional coldness is kind of a pattern on my father's side of the family), so I didn't and still don't quite know how I feel about it, as harsh as that sounds. All I can do is wish you much strength to pull through in those trying times.

I'm somewhat sad because I feel like I'm developing feelings for someone, but I'm really not in a state to let someone into my life right now - personal demons to battle, trying to be cool with myself again before I want to extend that to someone else. Depressive episodes and increased social anxiety had been piling up towards the end of last year. It's gotten better, but I still feel some of the aftershocks from time to time. And I just don't want to accidently impose my current emotional bullshit on someone I seem to be fond of.

As the oldest of my large group of close friends, I did everything first, University, marriage, LSD, divorce, losing my dad and mom, etc. Only thing they beat me to was having babies (I cant)

It is tough to be the first one going through everything, but it is also hard to see everyone else going through things I already dealt with, and seeing how hard it will be for them.

I currently have two separate friends who have parents with brain cancer. Life is tough

damn...

my ma, who died in 2005, used to say, "you're always a child until you're an orphan"

I don’t know, but I imagine it has something to do with the futility of everything and how empty my life is of things other than work and how afraid of love I seem to be.

Struck a chord. Yeah, it can be a daunting concept to wrap your head around sometimes.

Or as Judee used to sing:

It seems like everyone's so afraid of emotion
'Cause they can't bear the pain
But the deeper sorrow carves in the heart of your being
The more joy you can contain


Esoteric themes and death references notwithstanding, it's a great line that can be read in many different ways (and a great song at that).

this thread is a huge downer for me, it makes me sad to see all this pain. i wish i could do something for you guys. i don’t know what.

My social media addiction makes me sad every day :( But thanks to cbd syrup I've got a chance to beat this addiction.

im sad that i no longer know if new members are for real or just copywriters fishing for SEO links :(

it’s fucked up, the broken trust

I'm sad because:

-millions of people think that Trump is a good POTUS.
-2020 seems to be a very fucked up year, worldwide.
-I'm getting divorced, at the age of 58, with an 11 year old son.