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drowning thread.
i know that this thread is probably going to be dumped fairly soon because you have all heard this type of thing. but i think that i still have a few friends on here since the move and i want to say hi in a desperate way. My girlfriend and i are apparently breaking up. i don't know how else to say it. i don't want to say about it. but i probably should just accept the fact that we are through. i am totally in denial. it's not right. and i want to say that i love all of you and this is a great smile that comes from friends. but right now, i just feel like dying. won't i'm sure, but whatever.
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Call the Samaritans.
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pardon me, i could not resist:
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:) It'll be ok... Who's never had a broken heart?
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that sucks man.
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No time for drowning.Try this:
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shit, thats balls man, keep yr chin up, time heals all wounds
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it sucks ass but get over it, relationships end new ones begin life changes everyday embrace the change and dont dweel in the misery unless you have a guitar, paper and a pencil
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I've searched the holy books
I tried to unravel the mystery of Jesus Christ, the saviour I've read the poets and the analysts Searched through the books on human behaviour I travelled this world around For an answer that refused to be found I don't know why and I don't know how But she's nobody's baby now I loved her then and I guess I love her still Hers is the face I see when a certain mood moves in She lives in my blood and skin Her wild feral stare, her dark hair Her winter lips as cold as stone Yeah, I was her man But there are some things love won't allow I held her hand but I don't hold it now I don't know why and I don't know how But she's nobody's baby now This is her dress that I loved best With the blue quilted violets across the breast And these are my many letters Torn to pieces by her long-fingered hand I was her cruel-hearted man And though I've tried to lay her ghost down She's moving through me, even now I don't know why and I don't know how But she's nobody's baby now She's nobody's baby now Nobody's baby now She's nobody's baby now |
Thanks for the mood boost h8kurdt.
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holy fuck. depression sucks.
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No worrys, darlin:p |
At any rate, I repeat the advice I gave to...shentov, was it? Wallow, drink, wallow, wallow, wallow, and reprogram yourself so that the activities you used to associate with her become independent again.
Denial is unhealthy. I go for total detachment, which is much worse, but infinitely more effective. |
ha ha. nonsense. all shitty advice. :D
i'm all for SUCKING IT UP. be a man! have some dignity and self-respect. it will get through your system eventually, like a disease. the sooner you come to terms with the hard facts, the sooner you'll get better. & after that you'll be naturally vaccinated. :p |
"I moving on to better things, better people, better situations,
I’m moving to a better place (that better place is far from you)" -Pavement Try to keep your mind off it for now. Just try to set your mind on things other things and soon it won't affect you anymore. Stand up to yourself too! Face the truth, and there's plenty of fish in the sea ;) |
unless you're not a mackerel or a sardine :P
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I've never had a broken heart. |
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har har. that was a reference to dh lawrence in lady chatterley's lover.
he says something to the effect that "there are plenty of fish in the sea" if you're a mackerel or a sardine, but if you aren't , it just doesn't happen that often :P demonbox-- you must be like, what, 11? wait till puberty hits. :D |
no man, I'm 17. But I never had a girlfriend untill last year, and we're still together. But maybe one day she'll dump me, and I'll understand what all the fuss is about, and mabye then I'll even get the meanings of those Jeff Buckley songs:D
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weh, but what about wanting one that wouldn't have you?
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yeah, i guess that would be a form of broken heart, but nah, never tried it. Only form of heart-pain I've ever felt was loneliness, but that's bad enough.
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a FORM? man wait until you get a mad, life-destroying crush on your poetry TA who has a husband AND a boyfriend on the side :D |
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That's not heartbreak, that's irrepressible hormones. |
In my experience, the only effective strategy is to find something else to do. Just have fun. It's possible. Don't deny it, but occupy yourself and teach yourself how to enjoy life again. Go out, go to concerts, go to/rent movies, buy some CD's or something, find a new hobbie. My girlfriend and I of 1 1/2 years broke up a couple months ago. It sucks more than anything. But you'll never get over it unless you find something to be happy about.
And if you're depressed about it, drinking makes it worse. It pauses recovery. |
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ha ha, no way. she was a true beauty, and worth every goddamn pang. :D |
Swim damn you, swim!!!
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ahhh mr cave |
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I am very perked by everybody's response. it's exactly the type of response that i knew would come from the sonic love partners of mine. a flood of ideas that don't really say what is written, but rather. "thinking of you in some fashion" and i don't mean disco. so i'm already cracking jokes, but i don't feel any better overall.
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Have you tried walking on the coast with sandals, red shorts, a muscle-t and a constipated frown yet?
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