Are you cool with your gf/bf hanging out with opposite sex friends?
 

I apologize for saying "gf". It was a matter of necessity.

Are you ok with your significant other hanging out with opposite sex friends when you're not around?

If so, or if not, please explain.

I'm working on taking a position and need feedback.

i dont own anyone, they are not my property, relationships should not be about ownership.

nah dont care. she wont find anyone that gives her the kind of orgasms that i give to her on the reg.

even if you have concerns that this "friend" is acting predatory, you should still fall back on the trust you place in your partner. afterall, without trust, what's the point?

my wife can hang out with anyone she so chooses. I love and trust her implicitly.

ps: why not worry about the same sex too?

because there is no way pussy mashing can compare to my cock, innit

i thought we were here to treat everyone like shit
like an aids bacteria

you blindly assume that your girlfriend's girlfriend cares.

she doesn't. she has an even larger and more impressively skilled repertoire of satisfaction at her disposal.

I should know. she is me.

brb scissoring.

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Re-read your own post, please. The answer is there.

I agree about the "no-ownership" thing completely.

But I can still not like something someone does, and if I don't, I can choose to remove myself from their company.

p.s. If your sig-oth is bisexual, or you suspect them of being, then obviously it would not be limited to opposite sex friendships.

Here is the way I see it:

If a guy is friends with your girl, and she's a hottie - chances are, he wants to fuck her. The key question in this scenario is whether or not she wants to fuck him as well. You have to trust the fact that your girlfriend cares about you enough to not screw around behind your back... and if she is committed to your relationship, chances are that she does. If you can't trust her commitment... why are you dating her in the first place?

You don't want to come off as insecure about this, it'll only make her more likely to cheat on you.

everybody wants to fuck everybody?

boy + girl alone usually = fucking
9 times out of 10

so the only females you know are prostitutes?

In my experience platonic friendship between men and women is almost impossible outside a professional setting (and even hard within one).

girl + guy alone usually = fucking. it is programmed into our beings.

If I had one (:()I'd probably don't give a shit..

The sort of people [men] I know who say this are usually repulsive, under-sexed social retards incapable of finding any meaningful sort of relationship with either sex. They are also often homophobic - because by that logic, every gay guy is not to be trusted because he just wants to fuck the straight guy. Inevitably the latter isn't the case because, as previously mentioned, the person is usually repulsive.

Anyway. The bottom line for me is that if you're comfortable enough with being an adult, and don't carry around social/ sexual anxieties, it's both easier to acquire sexual partners and easier to deal with not having sex with some people while still being close to them.

"friends" or "dudes trying to stick their cocks in her"?

because that's what you're asking, right?

im someone is overtly trying to fuck her and she puts up with it in front of you maybe she's waiting for you to provide boot to the head.

if she actually invites it, ha ha ha, oh, good luck with that.

ok i read your question but i don't know what you're really asking, you know?

my wife has male friends that generally fall into 2 categories: 1) dudes who are like brothers (fucking them would be gross), 2) gay men

when someone tries to put the moves on her she a) rejects them, b) informs me, then c) we laugh about it (she has very funny ways to tell people to fuck off). i mean really if you don't trust her what is the point.

I trust my lady wholeheartedly, but that cannot be said for some of my cohorts! I agree with the above post by Mr Expletive

I want to make violent love to each of you, one by one, as your bf/gf of the opposite and/or same sex lustily watches on while I penetrate your every cavity, ever so deeply.

that way, your bf/gf of the opposite and/or same sex will know, first hand, the pain you feel as they do the same (albeit with less abandon and more discretion).

right. enough talky talk. let's get to fuckin'.